Dating dealbreakers

AskReddit Dating Dealbreaker Dealbreakers Love & Sex Reddit Womens Style You can’t change your past, but you can cleanse your memories… Ari grieves the loss of her sister deeply, yet she resists visiting the island resort where traumatic memories are repressed. Bad manners. Dating and life coach Jonathan Bennett says that “if a woman can’t stay off her phone while on the date, that’s it. It’s a non-starter.” Ryan, the single model, actor, and ... Dating expert and spiritual consultant, Davida Rappaport, takes a harder line: “If you cancel a date with a woman at the last minute more than once or twice, regardless of the reason: deal ... Dating app guy #1 taught me how important evaluating dealbreakers are when measuring up prospective dates. In order to strike a balance you have to remain true to your dealbreakers and checklists. Although we all change over time, and things can shift, it takes growing together through selective dating for there to be a forever in your near future. The top five dating dealbreakers for people are: The person lives far away . . . they have significant debt . . . they voted for President Trump . . . they’re 10 years older . . . or they’re raising kids from another relationship. 3. 52% of people say there are cases where it’s, quote, “acceptable” to have an open relationship, even ... These dealbreakers appeared near the top of several lists and surveys. In fact, in one study, this was the most commonly listed dealbreaker for a long-term relationship. This was encouraging to see, because anger issues and abusive tendencies should be at the top of ALL of our lists as a “dealbreaker” for relationships. This is why, on dating apps, most people set their distance to 15 miles. Keeps you waiting. If they are late for your date, it just isn't very promising. Lies. Once a liar, always a liar. In my survey, this deal breaker was the most common, which tells me that people don't like liars. Family conflicts. We asked dating and relationship exerts to name some of the biggest deal-breakers people cite for breaking off a relationship. Visit Insider's homepage for more stories. When you're considering the type of partner you want in your life, there are plenty of things that may make your list. Dating Deal-Breakers. By Marianne Wait. From the WebMD Archives. He’s rude to the waiter or downs too many drinks. She always wants to know where you are, or shows up late all the time. Are ... 25 biggest dating deal breakers for women. While there may be good qualities about you that make you a great boyfriend material, there could be a few traits of yours that could be putting off the girls you meet. [Read: 25 qualities that make a guy the perfect boyfriend material]

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2020.09.20 22:33 roguemononoke 20 [F4M] Canada/Anywhere - wanting something genuine

Hey I’ve been lurking on here, longer than I’d like to admit, so what the hell might as well post and see if anything happens—
I’ve seen a whole lot of anime and it’d be really cool to talk to somebody who’s into that too. I love watching seinen psychological type shows, Death Note’s my ultimate fave anime. Some other anime I like are Berserk, Neon Genesis Evangelion, Baki, Psycho Pass, Zankyou no Terror, HxH, Vinland Saga, Gangsta. Every now and then I’ll indulge in cute shit like Toradora or Back Street Girls if that counts. Feel free to recommend more anime and/or manga, been tryna get more into manga lately!
Nowadays I don’t game as much. I’ll play League of Legends or Forza every now and then. Kinda difficult to game with an interrupting baby around. I’ve resorted to watching gameplays as the next best thing! The most recent gameplays I’ve watched are FFVII-R and that demo made by the same people of Until Dawn with that dude in Maze Runner with crazy eyebrows.
The music I listen to are all over the place. R&B, jpop, kpop, hip hop, indie, rock, metal, you name it. Japanese 80s city pop will always have a special place in my heart - its sound is timeless. Stay by Me by Anri, Oh No Oh Yes by Mariya Takeuchi, and Mayonaka no Joke by Takako Mamiya are a few of my faves from that genre. Tell me some of your fave songs! It’s always fun discovering new music.
Very much a homebody, especially in these times. I’m taking neuroscience and stats classes this semester and oh man there’s a lot of material to absorb... Majoring in psychology and aiming to grad by next year. Not sure what career to pursue. As long as I earn enough to support my son and me, I’m happy.
I’m open to friendships or maybe something more. I know being a parent can be dealbreaker, especially for ppl around my age, so I’m not expecting much. I’ve learned that much from dating apps... It’d be nice to have somebody to talk about nothing and everything about. From how our days were like to our dreams in life. Send each other silly memes. Good mornings, good nights, and all that. I want something like that.
Have a great day/night!!
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2020.09.20 21:41 KingOfHeroes234 Help! I dont understand computer parts

What will you be doing with this PC? Be as specific as possible, and include specific games or programs you will be using.

I play EVE online, League of Legends, Dont Starve Together, StarCraft 2, and on and off with Ark, Conan exiles, and Atlas. I draw on art rage 4, once in a while.

What is your maximum budget before rebates/shipping/taxes?

$850

When do you plan on building/buying the PC? Note: beyond a week or two from today means any build you receive will be out of date when you want to buy.

Asap. I got a laptop at the moment my girlfriend is tryna take from me

What, exactly, do you need included in the budget? (ToweOS/monitokeyboard/mouse/etc)

Tower, OS, wifi adapter

Which country (and state/province) will you be purchasing the parts in? If you're in US, do you have access to a Microcenter location?

USA, and theres a Microcenter over an hour away, prefer to use Amazon

If reusing any parts (including monitor(s)/keyboard/mouse/etc), what parts will you be reusing? Brands and models are appreciated.

I have a razor deathadder mouse and and older Azza keyboard that hasn't failed me yet

Will you be overclocking? If yes, are you interested in overclocking right away, or down the line? CPU and/or GPU?

Doubt it.

Are there any specific features or items you want/need in the build? (ex: SSD, large amount of storage or a RAID setup, CUDA or OpenCL support, etc)

Wifi adapter

Do you have any specific case preferences (Size like ITX/microATX/mid-towefull-tower, styles, colors, window or not, LED lighting, etc), or a particular color theme preference for the components?

It'd be nice if they matched, not a dealbreaker though, no preference on colors
Do you need a copy of Windows included in the budget? If you do need one included, do you have a preference?
I do, I like windows 7 but 10 is alright
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2020.09.20 21:03 ProdigalSon123456 What is something relatively minor for most people that you consider a major dealbreaker when it comes to relationships and dating?

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2020.09.20 20:50 emerald_tendrils How long does it take you to be sure if someone ticks off all your "must haves"?

Hello folks. I've been lurking for a while and decided to finally ask for some advice.
I split with my long term partner of five years in late Feb (although I realise now that I mentally checked out of the relationship quite some time before that). I've been living my best life since then (within the confines of covid) and I'm really enjoying being on my own which I feel is a sign I am ready to date again.
And so, yesterday I went on my forth date with a guy who's been on the outskirts of my friends group for a couple of years. I always found him attractive in a "if I were single" kind of way and now I am. We've done drinks, dinner, walk in the park and dinner at mine. The chemistry is insane and I am very close to sleeping with him. (In the past I have absolutely been a first date girl. No shame.) We have great conversations and he checks nearly all the boxes. However, there are a couple of things that could potentially be amber flags and I'm not sure how long to wait to find out if they are dealbreakers.
He's been very clear that he really likes me and wants a relationship with me and we've talked enough (vaguely) for me to know our expectations and life goals align well. When someone has been that upfront and clear about their intentions, is it fair to continue seeing them if you are not equally as sure? I told him I need to take thing slowly and he is totally respecting that request but I guess I also don't want to waste either of our time. Help me please!
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2020.09.20 18:03 RandoModBuild Best interface for ademco vista 20p panel? Envisalink vs Alarmdecoder vs Safe by Hub6

I have a Honeywell/Ademco Vista 20p alarm panel. I am looking for an option to self monitor my panel but also have the option to professionally monitor it for ~$10 per month. The reason I am posting this is because I want to see the best option for me for my alarm system. I originally thought I should use Konnected and completely replace the alarm panel, but something about that didn't seem right. I wanted the sole function of the alarm panel to work, that is at least turn on the siren in the event of a break in or CO event. Using the alarm panel with it's simple yet very proven technology seems like the right way to go to ensure the greatest reliability.
Now, to interface the panel with the internet to get a cheaper monitoring service. The first product I found was the Envisalink, and it seems like a great solution for me. However, there is one downside, which I have heard but I need clarification on. Supposedly you cannot monitor zones while the system is armed, which is something I would probably want to do for Home Assistant/other smart home system) purposes. Then, I heard of the alarmdecoder. However, their product seems less reliable, because it needs another piece of hardware to work, such as a raspberry pi. Although Pi's can certainly be reliable, I don't want to have to worry about keeping it up to date, or possible exploits in linux. BUT, they say they can use "virtual relays" to get the state of zones despite the system being armed. Again, I need some clarification on this, because I am not sure if the envisalink can actually do that. And finally, the Safe by Hub6. Looks extremely polished compared to the other two. Even includes a cellular backup. HOWEVER, I want this system to last for years. Many of the Hub6 monitoring features seem reliant on the cloud, and while the alarm system would continue to work just fine, if Hub6 went bankrupt, I believe the product would stop functioning as well. As much as I want the cellular backup and nice polished app, unless it has some element of local control (such as an API like the envisalink or alarmdecoder) then it may be a dealbreaker for me. If Hub6 was older in this game, I may trust them more, but I am a little dubious. At least the envisalink can be controlled locally via an API with home assistant in case the company goes down the drain later.
Does anybody have any experience with these?
Thanks!
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2020.09.20 16:21 Throwaway12347901 My (M18) girlfriend (F18) and I really don’t have a sex life; is this pity? (Please help ~ Tuition from women?) LONG

(If you’re here to blatantly remind me that no sex is a dealbreaker, please read through this thoroughly and consider some things) I’ve tried to make this as organized and transparent as possible
I’m really just begging for genuine advice at this point, it would mean the world to me if any women or man with some type of experience could help me out. She is my life right now, and I want to help her out. I also want answers regarding some things.
I’ve been in a relationship with my girlfriend for roughly a year now. We’ve had sex two times. I can barely recall just how passionate it was, but I try my absolute best to go about our sexual encounters with care and sensuality. We both live with our parents but manage to see each other almost every day of the week. We have more than enough time behind closed doors, plenty of opportunities.
(HER) Her sexual past has consisted of seeing over 10 guys on Tinder, casually (I really never had a problem with this, but it does make me insecure at times), before people grab their emotions, I am well aware that every human is entitled to satisfying their sexual needs, and I’m in now way resentful of her actions. Nearing the 10th hookup, she tried to leave the following morning and was subsequently beaten and tormented for over 30 minutes before fleeing. After this, she stopped seeing people casually, and met me less than a month later. I was a virgin before meeting her. She is incredibly caring and has expressed that she wants to spend the rest of her life with me, and views me as both supportive and kind. (I haven’t been trying my best lately ~ advise the ISSUES section)
(ME) I’m a virgin, as stated earlier. I’ve learned a lot about kissing and how to pull strings but as far as sex I’m still very naive. My sex drive is pretty high, and ideally, I’d be having sex at least once a week, if not more. I’ve been depressed for most of my life and almost never having sexual encounters kinda just trashes my confidence and makes me feel like I’m just wasting my youth. Knowing that she also had 10 previous partners also kinda took an additional jab at me, and I’ve kind of weaponized that against myself lately and experienced some retroactive jealously. Lately, I’ve been suicidal for absolutely no reason but it’s definitely caused her to become more concerned about my mental health, and I feel like she isn’t actually attracted to me and just wants to keep me alive. I haven’t threatened suicide, and haven’t inferred that. She stated that she originally started talking to me because she felt bad about me recently being dumped. I also was hospitalized two months after she first met me for an attempt.
(OUR SEXUAL ENCOUNTERS) At the beginning of the relationship, she stated that she wasn’t interested in me romantically, kindly gave me a 7/10 (yeah I know ratings are childish), and never seemed super sexually assertive. I have never been able to truly identify where her libido stands from my own experience but she’s told me that it has been moderate-high throughout her life. She’s into some kinks and is pretty sexually experienced. At the beginning of the relationship, we tried out biting and she enjoyed being on top and I found out that I was a masochist. She’s a switch and likes both submission and domination. However, we haven’t had many of these encounters. Overall, we’ve had PIV sex two times, and she didn’t seem to react to it at all. We both kiss, but I don’t think that she has ever initiated a sexual encounter. She kisses me on the cheek, and lips (most often times not French kissing), and I usually have to do the extra work to get it any more intimate than that. I’ve given her oral over 5 times, I really wish that I could do it more because I envy so much about giving pleasure. I haven’t received oral from her. She’s never made me climax. I want to be understanding and patient, and I want to console her and help her through her hardship, but some challenges that I’ve been facing lately have caused me to use my celibacy against myself.
(WHAT WE’VE DONE) We’ve addressed lack of intimacy many times, and I feel line an asshole for readdressing it, but I feel the need to because it’s killing my confidence, causing me to question whether or not she’s genuinely attracted to me, and has just killed my understanding of sex. She’s created a lot of excuses ranging from I didn’t shave to I’m on my period, and I’ve met them with understanding. Recently, she opened up to just feeling scared about intimacy because of her most recent experience. I wang to, and have supported her to the best of my ability. Amid what I’ve been going through, I just can’t stop questioning whether this is pity or not, and whether or not she’s confusing that with real love. I know that any women wouldn’t want to tell their suicidal partner that they aren’t sexually attracted to them. She sometimes brings up hookups, and her positive experiences and it doesn’t help my confidence, and at times the retroactive jealousy has just overcome and left me awake at night. I remember before we first started dating, she said that she might make a journal, logging all of her sexual interactions, with other potential hookups, and has commented on other guys. She calls me handsome, which I take. I don’t know, my heart is just aching and I want to help her but this has destroyed my confidence and I constantly question everything, despite what she’s been through, which makes me feel like even more pretentious and greedy. My insecurity has caused us to grow more distant and just isn’t helping. I’ve just been obsessing over it.
TD;LR - My girlfriend and I don’t have sex (we’ve had it two times), been together for a year. She experienced some trauma and expressed how that’s affected her ability to interact with sexual partners. I’m very depressed/suicidal and I feel like this was created out of pity. I want to stay with her, and help her, but thinking about the possibility that she’s not attracted to me, or that I’ve fucked things up has just destroyed my confidence and made my depression worse.
None of this is her fault, at all. I know that. She has every right to do what she wants sexually, and I have been considerate of what she’s gone through and tried my best to help her through it. I just can’t deal with my contradictions and outlandish theories. She’s been seeing a therapist but I haven’t seen a drastic change.
Please, I just need something.
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2020.09.20 12:56 ZookeepergameShot754 Boyfriend cheated multiple times, I lost everything, I took revenge. I still miss him and want him back

The story is kinda messy...
I meet my ex a year ago after a very dark period in my life, I've for my entire life had it hard, never knew my father, my mother was a single mom, I was raised in foster homes, I've developed this addiction to smoking marijuana and drinking alcohol, so keep in mind, while you're reading this, every day I've had to hide the struggle of my addiction. but for over the last 4 years, I've had constantly been sitting in my apartment alone and depressed from the past, the only time I went outside was to go to work or to visit my mother for a couple of hours.
The night we meet I knew he was the one, we had everything in common, he was my soul mate.
We continued dating for a couple of months and we started getting serious, we ware texting and talking every day, visiting each other, planning our future together.. etc..
At we both lived at our own different apartments, I lived at mine, and he lived in this "frat house" with his friends where they all had their own bedrooms.
Things were going smooth, we went on a small vacation together, was at my place for two weeks due to quarantine, and we both loved every moment being together. It was the most perfect relationship there could be, I was so happy and we both ware deeply in love... so I thought...
I remember it was valentines this year I asked him if he wanted to be my boyfriend, he said yes.
At this point, I was the happiest person alive. Everything for once was going good in my life, I had a nice job, nice apartment, and a good relationship. I was finally happy, after 23 years of struggling.
A couple of months went by and I had an argument with one of my neighbors where I lived, my boyfriend then offered me to move into his place. I happily agreed as I've had already lived at this apartment alone for over 4 years, I thought this was a good decision.
By this time I had started getting less and less working shifts at my job, my new boss wanted to get me fired to save costs during the corona time, but since I already had been working there for 4 years he had a hard time finding a way to get me fired.
By now I was tired, he had cut my working hours in half and I made next to nothing working there, so I called in sick and got my doctor to diagnose me with " burned up ".
Now I was on a sick-leave from work and lived at my ex's frat house place. As I didn't have any job I was excited about being a "housewife" for him
My ex had gotten a new job, so he had to quit smoking marijuana, not like it was a big dealbreaker or anything, I was really excited about him getting a new job. I supported him and helped him wherever I could. But at this time I noticed his seemed different. There was no more sex, no more effort from his side like he seemed off. I understand that he was stressed with his job as he had to take exams in order to pass it, but there was something off.
The day came, and he passed his exam. He told me he was going out to celebrate with his co-workers after work and grab something to drink. I was so happy for him, I made a cake and cleaned and made sure everything was on point till he came home. but the hours went.. and went.. I asked him if hes coming home soon, he said he don't know when, but it won't take too long. another hour went by, and his friends from the house was also going downtown to meet him and his new co-workers. I called my ex and asked if I could come too. He said, just stay home, I think we're leaving soon. another hour went by and I asked again if I should come down. I didn't want to just be at home alone while him and all his friends went down town.
I meet up with my friend downtown and took a couple shots, while she was gonna meet her ex that had been cheating on her to confront him.
we split our ways and I again called my ex.
He said he was at this place and I just should come.
I came there and he was shit faced drunk. another hour went by and I just acted like nothing was wrong. He then started grinding on his co-worker. ( obsly drunk ), but for me. it was enough. I just left and told him wtf.. went home. He somehow took a taxi and arrived home before me. by the time I arrived he was already passed out drunk.
I took my time to check his phone.
and to my suprtise.. he had been talking with over 5 other guys.. sending dick pictures and flirting..
I was sick to my stomic, I slapped him up from the bed, and threw water on him, and he woke up screaming at me saying he never cheated, and don't I dare call him a cheater as I was the onlyone he loved.. blah .. blah.. I went out the room breaking down and crying.. I was crying so hard... never in my life had I been this hurt... his friends tried to confrot me and after a couple hours I laid down back in his bed next to my ex.. hurt and still crying.. at this time I could leave or go anywhere as I've already given up my apartment to move in with him. I laid there in his bed. 48 hours went by before he woke up. all that time I had just been laying there crying being hurt and sad. it all seemed so unreal. I tried to speak with him, but he just said his head ached and that he could talk about it.
another day went by and I tried to talk with him again, he just kept on denying, and I showed him proof. He got mad that I've been on his phone and checked his snaps. I told him I had my reasons and I was glad for doing that. He then told me he never slept with someone else, and that he though I was doing the same thing. Because he didn't know what I was doing on my phone..?
I was confused and shocked and I told him that wtf if you're in a relationship with someone, you don't send pictures of your dick to someone else. It's not that hard. He said he was sorry. I told him, if he's real about this relationship you go delete every fuckboy you got on your phone and make it official with me. He then claimed I had deleted everyone that I saw and there was no other. and he only loved me. I forgave him and gave it a couple of days for him to make it official and delete some other people as I was aware off. The days went and I spoke with him about it again, I brought it up that he still had some people on his Facebook that he had sent dick pictures too or been flirting too. He then claimed that he had forgotten and went on to delete them. but he didn't make it official with me on Facebook.
So hurt me... was still not pleased that he was really sorry for cheating and still hiding something, but I tried to act like nothing.
Things ware going nice good again, we ware having a good time together, watching series, cooking, making jokes, laughing, having sex.. etc.. etc.. I felt loved again, but everything still seemed fake.. it was love, but it seemed wrong from my side. like this guy had been sending nude pictures and videos of himself, still while I was laying in his bed. He had the audacity to go out of the room, while his lover was still laying in his bed, go to the bathroom, living room wherever, and sending pictures of himself to other.
so a couple days or weeks went by, I'm not sure.. I was still devastated, I had lost my job, signed up my apartment, my money was out, and my current boyfriend had been cheating on me.
So I took all my stuff there and moved to my mother. I brought them there and it went some days, I was sad and devastated for leaving there and now having to live at my mother with no job, no money, and a broken heart. I was totally devastated. I then spoke with him and went back to his place, brought some clothes, and spent some nights there.
I was still unsure of everything, I was thinking, every time he went to the bathroom and he was active on snapchat that he was sending pictures of himself. So I was tired of doubting.. so I bugged his phone.
Took me a day, we had a good time and watching this series, laughing, before I went to the bathroom to check the logs. And to my shock, the same morning after all this fighting, crying, and forgiving he was back sending nudes to others.... the same morning!
I went to his room in shock, I calmly turned off the tv and asked him he had something to tell me.. he then denied.. I asked if he still sending nudes.. he then denied again.. he then asked if I hacked his phone, I said I know everything. I was again mad, so I left.. for a final time... I was back at my mom's sad and angry about everything. He said he was gonna press charged at me if I continued to hack his phone. Some speaking later I had him removed from the virus.
I had one friend left who also smoked and drank, the one I referred to earlier so I meet up with her, we went on to drink and smoke a whole bunch, I was drunk out of my mind and I decided to make a new Snapchat and added my ex's. I took him no more than 1 minute for him too add me.
I asked for pictures and he said " You first ". I just got so mad I instantly called him.. I told him that I made the profile and he was an asshole. I asked if he's still been sending pictures, and he just replied " why do you care?", for some reason I just lost it. I stepped out of the bus I was at, and waited for the other to his place. I think I went into a psychosis or something. I arrived to his place and had a plan to go inside, destroy his tv, destroy his phone and his car. I went to his garage. picked up a sledgehammer and went inside his house. I barged into his room and within seconds his friends ware holding me. one grabbed my neck, another my hand or finger, not sure, because my finger was messed up afterward. they took the hammer and I was in the room with my ex, just me and him. he said something about , what are you doing, coming here drunk, making a scene. I was just mad, screaming, i'm not sure, but the one thing I remember was I grabbing the picture of me and him and throwing it somewhere, he then got mad and started pushing me outside.
I was then ouside his house and him and his friends ware standing there, the next thing I do was grabbing this bucket and throwing it at his car. My ex and his friend then proceeded to grab me and push me away. I was so mad I took of my belt and started swinging it, daring them to touch me.. I was mad screaming telling them I will be back within an hour. I then called my ex's job and told them that he had been taking cocain and cannabis, as he had told me that the job was more important then our relationship. so I wanted to destory his carrier that he had been working so hard and stalling our relationship for.
I proceeded to go home to my mother, just destroyed about everything. The days has gone and he had me blocked from everything. Took him a couple weeks before he sent me a message and asked if I sent the email to the other people in the house. I just said I'm sorry. The last thing he sent me was that he hasn't been at work in 3 weeks and that he had to take blood samples etc..
It been a week now since the last message and I cannot commmit to living anymore, I'm so hurt by the whole situation. I tried committing suicide the other day, cut my wrist but regretted halfway, ran home to my mother with my wrist bleeding..
I wake up everyday dreaming about him, naousius and sad.. I don't want to live anymore now.. I just want him back.. we both hurted eachother..
I'm thinking I should call him today.. or I cannot continue anymore.. this is all to hard..
I tried now explaining my best to you guys, but now I'm lost... I just want him back, but i destroyed everything...
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2020.09.20 11:09 kuocakuola [QC] JLC Master Compressor Navy Seals on Rubber Bracelet from JTime

[QC] JLC Master Compressor Navy Seals on Rubber Bracelet from JTime
Hi everyone - this is my first rep but I've spent a lot of time on here trying to understand the game and how it works. What an amazing community this is! I was hoping I could maybe get some help evaluating these QC photos:
  1. Dealer name: JTime (Li)
  2. Factory name: N00B
  3. Model name (& version number): JLC Master Compressor Navy Seals on Rubber Bracelet
  4. Album Links: https://imgur.com/a/Gaxqnx2
  5. Index alignment: The hour stickers at 1 and 7 don't look perfectly aligned to "5" and "35" but that might be nitpicky. On its own, this would not be a dealbreaker for me.
  6. Dial Printing: Looks good to me.
  7. Date Wheel alignment/printing: vertical centering appears spot on, but I feel like the date is skewed to the left in almost every photo.
  8. Hand Alignment:
  9. Bezel: When zooming in, it appears the bezel triangle points slightly to the left of the line designating "60"? I've asked for more photos, but this will annoy me if true
  10. Solid End Links (SELs): seems flush to the case to me
  11. Timegrapher numbers: +7s/d, 285d, 0.2ms, 12s all within acceptable range!
  12. Anything else you notice: one of the photos shows some light scratches to the case body, but I've asked if it's just my eyes or if it can be polished out.
I'm not sure I'm ready to GL without more info, but would love to hear some thoughts from the experts. Would you GL this if it were yours? :)
u/watchyoda - unbelievable how prolific and generous you are with your time and input...any thoughts from you would be especially appreciated! Thanks!!

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2020.09.20 08:30 -JerBear New to PCs and need help building my first gaming setup

What will you be doing with this PC? Be as specific as possible, and include specific games or programs you will be using.**

Gaming and streaming. Looking to play primarily CoD and steam games as well as stream my gameplay. Looking for maximum performance for the price.

What is your maximum budget before rebates/shipping/taxes?


When do you plan on building/buying the PC? Note: beyond a week or two from today means any build you receive will be out of date when you want to buy.


What, exactly, do you need included in the budget? (ToweOS/monitokeyboard/mouse/etc)


Which country (and state/province) will you be purchasing the parts in? If you're in US, do you have access to a Microcenter location?


If reusing any parts (including monitor(s)/keyboard/mouse/etc), what parts will you be reusing? Brands and models are appreciated.


Will you be overclocking? If yes, are you interested in overclocking right away, or down the line? CPU and/or GPU?


Are there any specific features or items you want/need in the build? (ex: SSD, large amount of storage or a RAID setup, CUDA or OpenCL support, etc)


Do you have any specific case preferences (Size like ITX/microATX/mid-towefull-tower, styles, colors, window or not, LED lighting, etc), or a particular color theme preference for the components?


Do you need a copy of Windows included in the budget? If you do need one included, do you have a preference?


Extra info or particulars:
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2020.09.20 07:07 BubblyCandidate Is not being college educated a dealbreaker?

Hi, my RedPill ladies. I'm a long-time lurker and a first-time poster. I am in need of some dating advice. I have been dating this man for about 2 months. He has a lot of the qualities I am looking for in a partner and he has been very respectful of my boundaries. He has a good job working in software engineering, but I recently discovered that he does not have a formal college education.

We met on Bumble and his profile said that he had an undergraduate degree, but he actually only has a certificate that allows him to do the work that he is doing. When we talked about education on one of our early dates, he told me that he did go to school, but that is bending the truth in my opinion.

I don't like that he's not college educated and I think 2 months is a bit late to bring something like that up. I recently read, "Marry Him," by Lori Gottlieb and I am trying to be picky about the things that actually matter. So, RedPillWomen, is not being college educated a dealbreaker? What if he's not college-educated, but has a six-figure job? If this situation is not a dealbreaker, what is my next step? I feel lied to and I would've never considered a relationship with a man who didn't go to college.
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2020.09.20 05:48 CandidSeaCucumber Mid-late 20s F4M

Straight female, looking for friendship or companionship. I may be open to hookups or friends with benefits, but definitely not to dating or relationships. If you’re looking to start a serious relationship with me, there’s something fundamentally wrong with you (like reading comprehension or the ability to follow directions). I’m chonky but not morbidly obese or the good type of “thicc,” I have “mask-ne,” and I work a stressful job with some level of unpredictability built-in.
I’m looking for 23-33yo guys, preferably Asian, preferably white-collar, must be ddf, must be hot, must have decent hygiene and smell nice, must have decent spelling and grammar, and must be ok with the smell of chlorine. If you’re anti-mask, antivax, pro-Trump, anti-BLM (aka racist), or pro-life, don’t bother messaging. Bonus points if you’re willing to bribe me with food or boba (extra points if it’s durian-flavored). Not interested if you’re married, poly, in a relationship, or have regular hookups or FWBs (my body, my choice- I can be hypocritical or arbitrary when it comes to preferences.)✌️
Edit: other dealbreakers: if you don’t believe in climate change, science, a round Earth, that mothers should have the right to breastfeed in public without covering up or getting harassed, that women belong in the house but not the House, birth control, comprehensive sex ed, gun control
Edit 2: can’t believe I need to say this- this is F4M. Not interested in low-effort messages, and definitely don’t send me unsolicited dick pics. 🤦‍♀️
Edit 3: Shout-out to u/brikenmiy78 for messaging me to tell me I’m crazy for supporting BLM. And to u/034walkon for messaging me to tell me he wants someone who “takes care of herself” [sic] and then got butthurt when I told him I was fat (which I clearly already stated above).
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2020.09.20 00:10 anonsecopsa310 Late 40's [M4F] - USA/ Global - You Want Honesty?

So I hear people lament about how they're unsuccessful with online dating because the other person isn't honest/ forthright regarding dealbreakers (among other reasons).
Despite there being a ~ 100% failure rate when being as thoroughly honest/ forthright as pragmatic in a public setting (why people aren't honest)... I'm going to do it, anyway, as I believe such to be most strategically pragmatic... Not to mention a hell of a means of separating wheat from chaff for determining with whom to invest one's most holistically valuable resources - their time and personal energy (emotional/ mental).
This thread explains a few bits about me. Although not intentionally NSFW, a few NSFW tidbits must be included for sake of the goal, esp. given what appear to be some women's too-often-unspoken search criteria... :- It should provide you with greater-than-average insight into what sort/ type of person you would be conversing with... Were you to choose such.
If intrigued... Please read the above-linked, then follow the instructions at the bottom of that page if you continue to find yourself intrigued after having done such.
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2020.09.20 00:08 anonsecopsa310 Late 40's INTJ-T [M4F] - USA/ Global - You Want Honesty?

So I hear people lament about how they're unsuccessful with online dating because the other person isn't honest/ forthright regarding dealbreakers (among other reasons).
Despite there being a ~ 100% failure rate when being as thoroughly honest/ forthright as pragmatic in a public setting (why people aren't honest)... I'm going to do it, anyway, as I believe such to be most strategically pragmatic... Not to mention a hell of a means of separating wheat from chaff for determining with whom to invest one's most holistically valuable resources - their time and personal energy (emotional/ mental).
This thread explains a few bits about me. Although not intentionally NSFW, a few NSFW tidbits must be included for sake of the goal, esp. given what appear to be some women's too-often-unspoken search criteria... :- It should provide you with greater-than-average insight into what sort/ type of person you would be conversing with... Were you to choose such.
If intrigued... Please read the above-linked, then follow the instructions at the bottom of that page if you continue to find yourself intrigued after having done such.
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2020.09.20 00:05 anonsecopsa310 Late 40's [M4F] - USA/ Global - You Want Honesty?

So I hear people lament about how they're unsuccessful with online dating because the other person isn't honest/ forthright regarding dealbreakers (among other reasons).
Despite there being a ~ 100% failure rate when being as thoroughly honest/ forthright as pragmatic in a public setting (why people aren't honest)... I'm going to do it, anyway, as I believe such to be most strategically pragmatic... Not to mention a hell of a means of separating wheat from chaff for determining with whom to invest one's most holistically valuable resources - their time and personal energy (emotional/ mental).
This thread explains a few bits about me. Although not intentionally NSFW, a few NSFW tidbits must be included for sake of the goal, esp. given what appear to be some women's too-often-unspoken search criteria... :- It should provide you with greater-than-average insight into what sort/ type of person you would be conversing with... Were you to choose such.
If intrigued... Please read the above-linked, then follow the instructions at the bottom of that page if you continue to find yourself intrigued after having done such.
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2020.09.20 00:03 anonsecopsa310 Late 40's [M4F] - USA/ Global - You Want Honesty?

So I hear people lament about how they're unsuccessful with online dating because the other person isn't honest/ forthright regarding dealbreakers (among other reasons).
Despite there being a ~ 100% failure rate when being as thoroughly honest/ forthright as pragmatic in a public setting (why people aren't honest)... I'm going to do it, anyway, as I believe such to be most strategically pragmatic... Not to mention a hell of a means of separating wheat from chaff for determining with whom to invest one's most holistically valuable resources - their time and personal energy (emotional/ mental).
This thread explains a few bits about me. Although not intentionally NSFW, a few NSFW tidbits must be included for sake of the goal, esp. given what appear to be some women's too-often-unspoken search criteria... :- It should provide you with greater-than-average insight into what sort/ type of person you would be conversing with... Were you to choose such.
If intrigued... Please read the above-linked, then follow the instructions at the bottom of that page if you continue to find yourself intrigued after having done such.
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2020.09.19 23:44 anonsecopsa310 Late 40's [M4F] - USA/ Global - You Want Honesty?

So I hear people lament about how they're unsuccessful with online dating because the other person isn't honest/ forthright regarding dealbreakers (among other reasons).
Despite there being a ~ 100% failure rate when being as thoroughly honest/ forthright as pragmatic in a public setting (why people aren't honest)... I'm going to do it, anyway, as I believe such to be most strategically pragmatic... Not to mention a hell of a means of separating wheat from chaff for determining with whom to invest one's most holistically valuable resources - their time and personal energy (emotional/ mental).
This thread explains a few bits about me. Although not intentionally NSFW, a few NSFW tidbits must be included for sake of the goal, esp. given what appear to be some women's too-often-unspoken search criteria... :- It should provide you with greater-than-average insight into what sort/ type of person you would be conversing with... Were you to choose such.
If intrigued... Please read the above-linked, then follow the instructions at the bottom of that page if you continue to find yourself intrigued after having done such.
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2020.09.19 20:52 amievenreal99 [27F], SW Germany: Be my player 2, my co-nerd, my tank, my party member.

Where are my real nerds? The ones that were called freaks 15 years ago, the ones I can be shut-ins with together – apart from the occasional restaurant visit, the ones I can game with all day, the ones with 'geeky' interests to swipe me off my feet and fascinate me by telling me about topics they are knowledgeable about and the ones looking for a serious connection, whose interests in people do not lie in casually hanging out at parties, whom I can have hour-long TTRPG-sessions and be hopeless romantics with?
You are welcomed by the inn's maid, as she shows you the way into the tavern.You recall having gone to bed as usual last night. You don't know how, but somehow you woke up in a strange environment, a medival-style town, merchants yelling and praising their fruits across the street, people dressed in hoods. In search for answers, you entered a place with a sign on it which you could not decipher at first. As your glance sweeps over it, the maid tells you it's the adventurer's hall and asks you if you're even armed yet. Armed? You don't understand – but what you do understand is that this is probably the best place to search for answers.
You notice that the place is very crowded. People drinking, chatting, some are even singing and dancing. The atmosphere is rather... boisterous. Not so for a figure you notice at the end of the room. A woman in long, dark robes leaning over a book, reading. Her long, dark hair covering the rest of the table. Moving closer, you see her features: slightly tanned skin, average figure. Probably about 165 cm large, 70 kg.

**Personality:**
Metalhead by heart. And the very first thing people notice about me are the dresses I'm still wearing from back when I was actively goth. After years of backlash for my choice of fashion - and due to the fact that I really love my wardrobe - it has become a sort of statement and expression of my personality.
Apart from work (software development), I don't spend much time outside (though I do enjoy visiting restaurants, because who wouldn't love food and taking a nice walk). I avoid crowds though. I am into wholesome, down to earth people who are reliable, caring, genuine and know what they want. I also do my best to give back exactly the same. I have a strong dislike towards huge crowds, as well as loud noise. Hence, I am in favour of calm people with the same preference, despite tending to get nervous and anxious easily.
I have been wanting to go back to being vegetarian/vegan. This is not something I would expect from someone else - I don't really care about what you eat, really.
Also, I'm a hopeless romantic. I am heavily invested in the things I do - be it playing games I play competitively/hardcore, putting effort into my work or taking my relationship very seriously to the core. I would expect the same.
I like people who are high effort, hardworking, reliable adults, taking things and things they do seriously and value their dignity and self respect. In fact, I consider those the most desirable attributes in a person.
I have my flaws. In fact, I have many, some of which you will notice, others I will share. Neither do I expect you to be perfect, nor should you expect the same from me. I believe that a relationship between two people provides a fundament for both to learn from each other, help and support each other, share things about themselves and their emotions. Because we all are human, not machines, and we need each other. If you don't appreciate flaws in people and are too inspired by social media in that regard, I do not think we would get along. In fact, I wish people embraced their humanity more and dared more to be human.

**What people notice about me first:**
\- I laugh a lot
\- generally a very cheerful person
\- dressed in black
\- mostly sitting aside from the rest
\- sensitive to loud noise

**Hobbies:**
Apart from gaming, I also enjoy intellectual/philosophical conversations a lot, as well as watching good anime (we can exchange MALs if you want).
I used to play a lot of LoL and climbed hard until a month or so ago, but quit due to the community being very unenjoyable, yet a major factor of the game. Not only that, but I really don't want to support Riot Games.
I used to hardcore raid in several MMOs before (truly, I miss progressing through the puzzle-like savage and ultimate raids in FF14) and, since I love the challenge, I love my games in the highest difficulty. Let's play Nightmore/Iron Man/Extreme mode together.
Nowadays, I mostly watch anime, replay some Pokemon roms (like some Kaizo Nuzlockes) and dabble in Unity. I'd also love playing a TCG, preferably Legends, with you.Do you have any game in mind we could play together? An RPG, a survival, something we can roleplay?

**Other than that:**
I mainly play isometric RPG (Divinity OS2, Pillars of Eternity, Tyranny, Baldur's Gate, etc), action RPG (mainly Souls series and I'm very hyped for Elden Ring!), raid in MMORPG (WoW classic, FF11 and FF14, where I have been raiding competitively and did world prog (but then my static disbanded and I left, because can't be bothered with PF), looking forward to Pantheon and Ashes of Creation), strategy games (EU4, AoE, etc.), love CCG a lot (MtG and TESL) and, of course, tabletops and boardgames. I enjoy chess a lot, too.If you're interested, feel free to slide into my DMs :)
Since I'm mostly playing TESL and waiting for Baldurs Gate, New World, Ashes of Creation, Pantheon, Elden Ring, Mortal Shell these days, I would be very happy to be recommended a game we can play together.
Currently I'm not really doing much, besides watching videos on YT, waiting for the never-coming Made in Abyss S2 and dipping into Path of Exile at times, despite not being all that much into Hack n Slays. If you have a game recommendation, throw it at me.
Let's play something together.

**Goals, aspirations:**
I'm not a careerist person. What I truly aspire one day is living in a very rural place - or in the wilderness - and having a small, but cosy hut. The basement is a gaming area with nice RGB and has a long table with 2 PCs and chairs where we can game together. I am not on social media (except reddit and whatsapp) and would like to flee somewhere far away from all that.
I believe that most seek for their purpose. I have chosen mine to play vidya, code and have someone I can call my home.
Someone to make me smile in the morning after reading his message, knowing the day cannot go wrong.
Someone to game with, talk about whatever or just enjoy their presence, without anything else needed.
Someone to take a walk in the summer rain with.
Someone to go to the beach with.
Someone to discover restaurants and cafés with, as food is the only thing I would love to go outside for.Someone I know will be there when my day was bad and nothing else will matter.
Someone caring who stays in difficult times, too. It does sound selfish on a second thought, forgive me.
Someone to maybe visit Japan with again, where I used to live for 1.5 years before.
Also, I've been gaming basically all my life. My first MMO was, as stated, Ultima Online, and I've always played competitively - mostly so in FF11, FF14 and WoW. I always dreamed about having someone to share this with and to do it with. Imagine you're in esports and so is your partner, wouldn't that be fecking amazing.

**Strengths:**
Coordination and a very good memory, at least when I am actively memorising. It's why I originally wanted to study medicine. My everyday memory is pretty damaged, to be honest. Apart from that, I am a very loyal and dependable person.

**Weaknesses:**
Social interactions. I do feel like this is important, so I'd like to include this: I do hope that you're not creeped or weirded out by someone with depression, anxiety and self esteem issues or who tends to be emotional at times, as that has been a huge factor in my life.
I would prefer someone who is not a very social or popular person. Not because I wish loneliness on anyone, but because I think that the more you have of something, the more you will take it for granted. I am selfish enough to want to be special and appreciated in that regard, instead of considered disposable.
I believe that me always having been alone has it advantages and disadvantages. One of the disadvantages would be that I often feel overwhelmed with groups and don't like crowds at all. I feel anxious around people and will often not know what would be right. This has often lead to me being ignored, me living as a ghost, my attempts at socialising being a one-way street.
However, I believe it also has advantages. I know the value of people I like and people around me, because they are rare, and will not take anyone for granted.

**Partner ideal personality:**
I am into wholesome, down to earth and reserved people who are reliable, caring and know what they want. I like calm people - mainly because I often fail to be.Many guys tend to make a big deal about their experience, but I don't really care either way. ​
I'm a hopeless romantic and one of my biggest dreams in life include having someone who cares for me, treats me kindly and is protective.If you share my dream of living in a hut in the wilderness with a basement designated for two people gaming one day and big cities are not your cup of tea, that's a huge plus.I have a "live and let live" mindset and it would be ideal if you had that, too.I'm a friend of individualism and emancipation, meaning to take responsibility for myself and caring about my own stuff, instead of poking into other people's lives. Mainly because I have been teased a lot for my hobbies, I do not do that to others.I am a person who seeks harmony, but does not avoid conflict, despite not enjoying it. However, relationships having ups and downs is completely normal.
If you're someone who runs away at the first inconvenience, rather than wanting to build a stable enough basis that no matter if we disagree or argue, we can always talk about anything honestly and openly and would support each other, we might not get along.This means, I believe that being kind and avoiding harsh truths does not make you a good person. I also believe that honest conflict has more value than fake harmony. Hence, I highly dislike cowardice.
Personally, I have been through my share of hardship and I believe this has made me resilient. I know myself and I know what I want. I know my strengths and weaknesses.I hope you do not consider me a judgemental person after reading through this.

**Partner ideal hobbies:**
Gaming with me and ideally having a similar ethical mindset. If we can talk about random topics for long times and/or watch Anime together, that'd be a great bonus.

**Partner ideal appearance:**
Appearance is a big deal, I've heard. I don't care much about height or weight - dated from very thin/small to very big/tall. I care about self care though. Don't have a prefered type, though I have a thing for pale and "nerdy", whatever that may mean. If you've read until here, let me know your favourite food. Also, let's exchange pictures, since it's always good to "see" who you're talking to. I don't like anonymity.

**Dealbreakers:**
Smoking, religion, substance abuse and pseudoreligious views.
Also, a lifestyle that fundamentally differs from mine. Not because I would judge – I am really happy if everyone can just life their lives to their fullest, without anyone sticking their noses into it – but it would not be for me.
If you feel like we could get along well or you just want someone to talk to (or perhaps you're looking for someone to play WoW classic/raid in other MMO/play some MtG/HS/TESL/boardgames/chess with, feel free to drop me a message.I will definitely reply! I don't care about age, distance, etc.
**People I would like to message me:**
\- Those who are looking for a meaningful and lasting relationship to offer each other care and stability
\- Those who have goals and want to support and inspire each other
\- Those who want to play some video games together
\- Those who would like to get to know each other
\- Those who value reason highly as well as having reasonable, inspiring conversations\- Those who would like to exchange some life experiences. Especially people who had lows and always strive to stay optimistic are ones that I admire.
\- Those who are looking for a reliable, constructive, non-shallow friend as well as offer to be one\- Down to earth, humble and kind people with a good heart I will do my best to reply to your message asap, promise
\- even if I think it won't work out! The only exceptions are creepy messages/profiles, throwaway profiles and "hey". I don't mind a long distance relationship, so anywhere is fine, if we like each other (offering a free refuge to a special someone, if they are from overseas XD).
That was a long ride. After writing all that much about myself, I'd be delighted to read your introduction, too. :) Have a good evening/morning/day, wherever you are.
PS: After a while of searching, I found a a more everyday photo I was willing to share: https://imgur.com/a/vaw5soA
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2020.09.19 15:26 JMeerkat137 Just Posting My Feedback for the Devs

I feel like I have enough matches under my belt to give some feedback so here it goes.
Good Stuff
Bad Stuff
Alright I feel like I rambled on about a lot of bad stuff that I didn't like, but I will say that I've mostly been having a fun time with the beta. SBMM has kicked my ass a couple of games but a lot of the important stuff is there. Gunfights generally feel nice because of a slower TTK. Most of the balancing seems to be pretty good, I think everyone knows by now what stands out, but generally speaking the rest of the guns are in a good place, and all have different purposes. Basically, I didn't hate what I played, there's just a lot of little things that I think could be improved, but if they aren't they aren't necessarily dealbreakers for me.
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2020.09.19 10:30 Honest-Food-94 Am I gay or do I just want to be?

Hi everyone,
I’m a 25 yo cis woman. I’m looking for help understanding my own sexuality, general advice, and even commiserations. I generally refer to myself as queer or bisexual, but I’m truly unsure and generally uncomfortable with labels.
The only long term relationship I’ve been in ended 3 years ago, with my college boyfriend. Our relationship lasted 2 years and since then, I’ve seen a handful of other people but have run away before things could get very serious. In this time, I’ve “dated” (in quotes because I’ve been too afraid to actually call it this each time) 2 cis women, 1 cis man, and 1 trans woman. I haven’t felt a “spark”, if such a thing exists, with any of them, which makes me overthink everything even more.
I believe that I’m physically attracted to people of all genders. I don’t consider myself to be a very sexual person, and have considered that I may be asexual (or somewhere on the asexual spectrum). I didn’t experience any conscious crushes or attraction growing up, or even until I started dating my college boyfriend. I do feel sexual attraction, but rarely (if ever) unless I’m making out with someone (and even then, only when I can get out of my head).
With full cognizance of making sweeping (and binary) generalizations, I find that I tend to feel most comfortable around women and gravitate towards women in general, whereas I often feel more awkward and like I don’t know what to say around men. I also feel a strong sense of attachment and connection with the word “gay”, and consume a lot of content by specifically lesbian or gay musicians in particular.
One of the main sources of my inner turmoil relates to sex, because I just don’t enjoy oral sex or finger play. It’s fine, it’s not unpleasant, but it’s only fine, and I much, much prefer penetrative vaginal sex. For full disclosure, I’ve only had penetrative sex with cis men, although not by conscious choice.
I believe that I could date a straight cis man and be content, but that’s not really the point. I know it’s wrong to date someone based on genitalia, but is it wrong to prioritize my own sexual preferences (namely, for penetration)? How do I do this in general? Does this make me less queer or gay? Is it okay for this to be a dealbreaker for me or should I try to be more open? How do I label myself, taking this into account? Am I just overthinking everything?
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2020.09.19 09:34 WhatThePhoque LTR went through my Instagram

My ltr went through my insta and went through the girls who liked my pic. She saw comments of girls and mine, insanely flirty and cringey (now looking at it). She said she felt disgusted, cause now she knows why I like her, which isn’t a lie I do have a strong type of preference, but this was none of the reasons why I decided to date her.
Have to admit that I was in a much more of beta phase in my life. She already said that it was her own fault for even dipping in my past and she had no business or reason to do it outside of curiosity. But that she can’t do anything about how she feels now cause of it. I told her it happened in the past way before I met you, all it matters is how I am now. Then she proceeds to tell me she doesn’t care about my past. And pretty much after that I told her alright if you say so I’m gonna sleep.
How should I proceed? Cause I know talking about it is a waste of time. I can’t change how she feels and if it’s for her a dealbreaker the door is pretty clear. I’m not planning to call it off from my side, cause she is very honest about it and knows she’s wrong, but just wanted to let me know how she feels.
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2020.09.19 07:14 Throwra6686545 Sometimes I [19f] just think about my relationship and cry.

I just wanted to get something out because I don’t really have anyone I feel comfortable talking to about this.
Last week my boyfriend [22m] and I [19F] just hit our one year mark. It was as perfect as you can get given the pandemic and I felt totally confident in our relationship. We always talk long term relationship goals so there is a degree of security. Today, we went on a date and my boyfriend got mad over something petty and projected it on me. He was about to cancel our date but we ended up going and had a really fun time. I thought I worked past whatever happened in the morning, but once he left I just felt sad and started crying. This happens to me sometimes, I don’t know why I was crying. I just thought of our relationship and it happened, it could have been because I’m not over this argument or just the relationship in general. Our relationship is going great but when I think about, sometimes I suddenly get sad.
My boyfriend means the world to me, but I’ll admit, our relationship has been rocky in part due to rapid changes during COVID. We began to argue frequently and I think it’s in part due to my unmet needs in this relationship. We almost broke up 2 times (he wanted to but decided not to) but stayed together. I am not very good at communicating when my needs are unmet, so before COVID I kept it to myself until I snapped 5 months ago, but since then I’ve seen a positive change in my relationship. I feel happy around my boyfriend and in this relationship, but sometimes I cry thinking about the painful things he has said to me when arguing in the past (not dealbreakers, but other cold, insensitive things).
I would like advice from anyone who has felt that rush of sadness when they think about their relationship. I feel happy with my boyfriend, but sometimes just thinking about our relationship makes me cry. Does this mean that deep down I’m really not happy in it or something?
TLDR; I have a good relationship that has been rocky during COVID, and sometimes it makes me sad to think about it.
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